what should i do : by More by Anonymous User
submitted Thursday Aug 20th, 2009
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friends
i am in a shock and need advice
i caught my wife cheating with someone by reading her mails
got her pictures with him also and emails which says she loves him,he also same mails,this has been going on for 2 years they meet up when i am not in city
I confronted her she confessed but till said no sex between them only kissed
The pictures shows them hugging and she also in some room with him .We are married for 15 years it hurts me very much cant decide what to do
Trust her or not she want to start again but i cant forget this whenever i close eyes i see the pictures
Pls advice me how to get out of this pain
Remember we come from traditional Indian families
Comments on what should i do
Good Luck Brother : Give yourself some time. It\'ll hurt, and only time will heal it. She will have to work her way to regain your trust again. If you truly want to stay with her, you will have to endure the pain for now. Things will be rough, but you should talk to her, and figure out if there is a reason that she decided to cheat on you. Can the fault be partially attributed to yourself? Or did she just make a bad mistake? This is now the time to be honest to yourself, and for her to be honest with you. Good luck brother. by Anonymous Commentor on Tuesday Aug 25th, 2009
ONce a player always a player : my friend,dont take any reason for her cheating on you,if she did it once she is able to do it again..the rule players always have its that if they want to cheat they will always find away to cheat. if she really loved u she would of never dont anything to hurt you period. it may hurt but its ok..confront her and ask her why of course but be a strong person as you better then this and dont derseve to be treated like sh*T. There is plenty of fish in the sea,sont drown ur self in sorrow and dont blame yourself. she is only to blame cause she got her self into this mess. dont take her back,you dont want someone who comes home to you after they have been with someone else. Your a beautiful person inside and out and dont let anything beat you down. dont things u love to get over her and move on. it mayb hard but u will found another person who wont do anything to hurt u.\ by Anonymous Commentor on Thursday Aug 27th, 2009
friends : Thanks for your advice but the problem is we live in Asia India
breaking the marrige is not easy and think like this i have never been
with any other woman in my life and only loved her.SO i need the advice what to do any way to forget this
Or any way to forget her and forget the pain which i felt like knife in my side evry breath i take now days
Any way to forgive and forget , any way i can make my heart trust her again .???????????????????????? by Anonymous Commentor on Monday Aug 31st, 2009
friends : hello anyone with more advice this is ? of life and deth for me
thanks by Anonymous Commentor on Tuesday Sep 15th, 2009
do : fuck urself by Anonymous Commentor on Tuesday Sep 29th, 2009
i feel sorry for you : Just go for couselling, they will help you live with it but i doubt you will forget. Does she feel remorse at all about it? by Anonymous Commentor on Thursday Oct 08th, 2009
writer of this : yes she feel remorse and try to convince this her first and last affair
but how can i again trust her ,this is the problem by Anonymous Commentor on Tuesday Oct 27th, 2009
: she needs ro tell the truth. RESPECT goes far. Even though she broke that respect first she needs to start now. STAY but bust the other fucking dudes ass!!!! by on Wednesday Dec 16th, 2009
: LOVE will bring trust by Anonymous Commentor on Wednesday Dec 16th, 2009
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