I'm trying to own the worst th : by More by Anonymous User
submitted Friday Apr 17th, 2009
Pride
For 25 years I've been a major hypocrite. I pretend that I'm the world's greatest husband, when, in fact, I'm really controlling, emotionally abusive, and unwilling to change. I have been very hateful toward my wife. I've treated her so badly that she's gained about 80 pounds. She has always been fair and kind to me. I have no excuse. In fact, the fact that I want some kind of excuse is part of the problem.
I really am hypocritical. Even when I am with her, I pretend like we are really happy and well-married. But now I want to change, and I'm finding it isn't easy. I think it's because I don't really want to admit that I have been so mean - downright evil really - toward someone who has loved me and been really good for me.
A component of this has been my perverted interest in sex. I'm kind of a voyeur - at least on line. I'm really ashamed of that.
Comments on I'm trying to own the worst th
: I think that first you need to get help with your sex problem then get some counseling for you and your wife because if you continue to wait your wife may just get sick of you mistreating her and leave you i think its a good thing that you have realize what you are doing and i hope that you can fix it before it to late most men take advantage of there loved ones and think that they will always be there but sometime people get tired take care and i hope things work out for you by shortylove1207 on Sunday Apr 26th, 2009
This is why im a lesbian : this is why im gay... men do not kno how to treat women ... you should never treat anyone the way you are i mean yea its good that you want to change and the reason you cant come up with an excuse for what your doing is because there isnt one it wrong and no women or person deserves that type of treatment by Anonymous Commentor on Sunday May 10th, 2009
First step is admitting there is a problem. : Now you need to come clean to your wife and seek counseling. Neither of these will be easy, but they must be done. Therapy will expose you down to your soul and talking to your wife could have the same effect. But then the healing can begin. I dont think you have a sex addiction from what I read. Seems like you just like looking at porn on the net. Until you start doing your regular everyday routine (work, walking the dog, bathing, eating) then it shouldnt be a problem. Take it one step at a time and brace yourself. Remind yourself to stay strong and good luck to you and your wife. by angst on Wednesday May 20th, 2009
Correction on above post: : The sentence beginning with Until should read Until it effects your regular everyday routine,etc. My apologies. by angst on Wednesday May 20th, 2009
ErLdgfihDp : Wheoevr wrote this, you know how to make a good article. by on Sunday Jul 03rd, 2011
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