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I'm going to die...
What do you think Confession
I'm going to die... : by More by Anonymous User
submitted Saturday Mar 14th, 2009
What do you think
Hey, I am 17 and I have a huuuuge problem. I would die for one guy and he doesn't even know about me. I adore him so fu*king much, you can't even imagine. I would do anything for him, literally. I have never even kissed before, because I don't want to be with anybody else, EVER. I want only him. But I can't be with him :( My obsession is way too unhealthy and I am suicidal. There are no words great enough to explain my love for him, for every single piece of his mind, personallity, body, face, soul... Simply EVERYTHING, E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G. I can't even explain how more then perfect he is. I adore every single thing about him. If somebody tells me that I will at least touch him and then die right afterwards, I'd gladly accept it. I can't live with my obsession anymore, it's killing me. I've had it for 3 years and it will NEVER fade away. I won't be with anybody else, because I don't want to be with anybody else, I want to be ONLY with my love. And I can't be with him. I don't know what to do anymore, I am so depressed. My whole life is ruined, because I can't concentrate on anything, I can't study, I can't do anything, all I do is crying. Nobody around me knows that I am in love (only one of my best friends and I told her recently, but I can't open up and talk about my feelings with her. I am not ashamed of those feelings, I just feel weird talking about it). I am trying to seem OK and laugh when I'm surrounded by people, because I've always been positive, smiling person and if I let them know how I really feel, they will see that there's something wrong with me, but I don't feel like talking about it with people around me, that's why I am writing here.
But when I get alone, I can't stop crying. I need him so much. I keep imagining him being near me, standing next to me. Oh, to be near him, to talk to him, hold his hand, to kiss those beautiful lips, to stare at him, to feel loved by him, to hug him, to be his, at least for a second... I would do anything, I would give my life. I am serious when I say that. This is not a childish crush, I adore him way too much and I always will. Yes, I have gone crazy, but please don't make fun of me, because this is really hard for me, I am suffering so much. I've gone crazy, I daydream about him all the time, imagine my conversations with him, plan our wedding and our children's names... But don't get me wrong, I am realistic, I know that NOTHING of that will happen. I just love daydreaming. But coming back to reality hurts as hell. This is not ONLY a desire or only a wish, I NEED him. I need him so fucking much, that it's impossible to explain. Only him. I don't want anybody else. WHY is life so cruel, why can't I have him?
My friends are actually worried about me, they think that I've never fallen in love, because they don't know that I'm in love with this guy. They freak out because I keep turning all the guys down- that makes my female friends go crazy because they are CRAZY about those guys, who are considered as the most popular guys of our generation (and few generations older). But I keep turning them down because I don't want to be with them. I even refuse to meet with them at the parties- when, for example, some friend of mine says that her friend is interested in me and wants to meet me, I simply refuse. Or when guys come up to me and start flirting, I immediately tell them that I am not interested. I don't care if my friends consider those guys hot, to me only hot guy in the Universe, EVER, is the one I'm in love with. He's the hottest thing EVER. But even if he wasn't, I'd still be as much in love with him as I am now, because there are no words good enough to explain how much I adore him in EVERY SINGLE way and EVERY SINGLE THING about him. It's impossible to describe how amazing he is and how much I adore him and how obsessed I am.
As I've already said, I am really suicidal, because my whole world revolves around him and I can't be with him. My heart is so broken and I even almost tried to commit a suicide once (I have one thing that stopped me, but I'd rather not talk about it), but the thought of doing that doesn't leave me alone. And I would like to let you know that this is very weird, because I've never considered myself as a weak person, nor did people who know me. I've always been way more mature then my generation. And by term mature, I don't mean cold or boring, I mean mature in the real meaning of that word.
And I have never actually been emotional. Sure, I have feelings, but even when I get really sad, it used to be so hard to make me cry. And it still is, except when it comes to him. I cry over him all the time. Everybody who knows me actually think that I don't have the ability to fall in love, because I've never been interested in guys (and girls neither), so everybody would be shocked if they found out that I've been truely, madly, deeply, profoundly, undescribably, crazy, obsessivly in love with this guy. He's my everything. If somebody told me that I have to give my life for him, I would IMMEDIATELY ACCEPT idoing it, without thinking twice. I just want him to be happy. His happiness is WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY more important to me then mine. If we had the opportinity to be together and if he refused it, OF COURSE that I would be sooooo sad, BUT at the same time, I would NEVER blame him, because I would never force him to do anything that he doesn't want or anything that would make him unhappy. THE MAIN THING for me is his happiness. I keep praying for him to be the happiest person ever, forever. My love for him is unconditional and eternal, it's the biggest love ever. But it's killing me, too. Since I can't be with him, I don't want to live at all. Life isn't worth living without him by my side.
And please, don't make fun of me, because this is not something to make fun of, this is a serious problem, and eternal obsession and love that has ruined my whole life and broken my heart. I just had to get this off my chest, even though the sadness will be in me forever.
And please have in mind that my native language is nowhere near English, so forget me if there are any grammar mistakes in this post, because I am way too depressed to check.
Comments on I'm going to die...
: I really feel like you should get counseling. A counselor or psychiatrist will help you sort out your feelings so that you can understand them and figure out why you feel so strongly about one individual. it really is unhealthy be suicidal over a person and before you can truly be in love with anyone you NEED to love yourself. often times high schools will offer counseling so just go to your guidance counselor and work out your feelings and strive for a better you. im sure your an awesome person but remember to take care of yourself because honestly if your dead, hurt , or emotionally suffering you cant make anyone happy not yourself or your love. so please go get help and everything will be alot better for you. hope things work out :) by Anonymous Commentor on Saturday Apr 04th, 2009
: Sorry again for the late answer... It\'s me, the poster of the thread... I couldn\'t answer earlier because of my computer.
Anyway, thanks for your advices. I WOULD be happy if I was with him. I WOULD be the HAPPIEST person EVER. I didn\'t used to hate myself, but I do now, because I\'m in love. I know, it\'s not my fault and I can\'t help myself, but my obsession is killing me. And it\'s an eternal obsession, really. No counselor or psychiatrist can help me, because they can\'t delete the feelings of incredible, undescribable love and obsession that I have. :( I just don\'t know what to do, I\'m desperate. by Anonymous Commentor on Monday Apr 06th, 2009
: hmmmm.. love isn\'t merely a strong feeling or obsession.. it\'s a decision. i think you shoul have someone whom you could tell and express your feelings with. someone to listen and to talk to, so that you could analize and sort things out. i hink the problem is you are isolated with that STONG FEELING OD AFFECTION.. it will surely bent off your burden to release it by sharing it. no one would hurt you if you do so, i think your loved ones would lovingly listen especially your mom, dad or friends. do not be afraid to let others know your heart,it will lead to a lighter situation. as for the guy, lighten up, we don\'t know tomorrow, may be GOD ha a wonderful plan for you both, do not burden yourself,you are oung, and you have so many things to do.. you\'re loving him by loving yourself, please do remember that, i don\'t think he would want to be with somebody who can\'t love herself.. s tak care of yourself. trust in the LORD and pray.. surrender all your burden and hurts unto Him, He cares for you. Jesus loves you. :) by Anonymous Commentor on Friday May 29th, 2009
uDMAXWwBXVwCFIMBnS : Of the panoply of weibste I\'ve pored over this has the most veracity. by on Saturday Nov 19th, 2011
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