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Help me..
Love Confession
Help me.. : by More by MaraKayle
submitted Saturday Mar 08th, 2008
Love
Im 14. Im not married nor do I have any kids. But I do have a boyfriend && I really like him. His mom said if he messes up one time then he will have to move in with his Dad in a different state. Well the other day we were having sex (He is 14 too) and I told him I loved him and he said "Do you love me enough to have my baby?" Well Of course I did. And I do want his baby-But Im not rich. Im not poor either but I know if I had a baby that I wouldnt be able to care for it the right way and it wouldnt have the greatest life. Well we were about to be done and he said, Im bout to cum. I said, "Are you going to come inside of me?" And then he asked me if I wanted him to. I didnt know what to say. So he goes, Well if you want me to-hold me down. So thats what I did, I held him down ontop of me. And now I dont know what to do. Becuase I am on birthcontrol but if I do get pregnant then it might deform the baby if I keep taking it. But if I stop Im for sure to get pregnant. I want his baby and everything..But I want him more.
Comments on Help me..
you're only 14 : You're only 14, of course your not married. You do not want kids at your age, you should want to live your life. You do not love him enough to have your baby. I fell in love at 14 but it was nothing compared to love when you're older and more mature. If you are using birthcontrol correctly you shouldn't get pregnant. Talk to your parents kid by Anonymous Commentor on Monday Apr 07th, 2008
you're only 14 : You're only 14, of course your not married. You do not want kids at your age, you should want to live your life. You do not love him enough to have your baby. I fell in love at 14 but it was nothing compared to love when you're older and more mature. If you are using birthcontrol correctly you shouldn't get pregnant. Talk to your parents kid by Anonymous Commentor on Monday Apr 07th, 2008
you're only 14 : You're only 14, of course your not married. You do not want kids at your age, you should want to live your life. You do not love him enough to have your baby. I fell in love at 14 but it was nothing compared to love when you're older and more mature. If you are using birthcontrol correctly you shouldn't get pregnant. Talk to your parents kid by Anonymous Commentor on Monday Apr 07th, 2008
you're only 14 : You're only 14, of course your not married. You do not want kids at your age, you should want to live your life. You do not love him enough to have your baby. I fell in love at 14 but it was nothing compared to love when you're older and more mature. If you are using birthcontrol correctly you shouldn't get pregnant. Talk to your parents kid by Anonymous Commentor on Monday Apr 07th, 2008
Look out! : I see you setting a bad fouundation in your own life. At your age you should be concentrating on your education more than anything else. Many of girls of your age have chased a mirage in the name of love which at your age is but just a fantacy. The have ended up messing their lives for ever. Young lady I have seen it all. Please heed my words, hold your gallopping horses for another nine(9)years and once you celebrate your 25th birthday the time will be mature enough to make an informed decision. Once again I urge you,don'f fall into that trap; I would love to see in this column a confession to the effect that you heeded my words and have succeeded in life, that's my prayer. God bless you. by Anonymous Commentor on Monday Apr 07th, 2008
tell us : I'm curious about if the guy still loves you, cause most of the guys leave you.. Btw it wasn't a good idea. by Anonymous Commentor on Monday Apr 28th, 2008
i'm 15 : i understand, you're inlove...i'm in love and i want a baby real BAD. but you must understand, you've made this mistake, and you know that you want this kid, so you have a chance of not having a baby or having one while you on birthcontroll and might have something wrong with that baby, the thing is, that you have to deside yourself it's a big thing, is it not? it's an amazing thing, the thing holding me back from having a kid is my parents and my schooling. my bf's mom had her 1st baby at the age of 13, and she doesnt have a job and only has an 8th grade education. what i'm telling you is to stay in school w/e you do so you CAN support that baby. you might or might not be religous, dont take this to offense if you're not, but i'll pray for you. :)
talk it over w/ him or you parents more likely. i wish you luck girl.
-ashley by Anonymous Commentor on Wednesday May 07th, 2008
i'm 15 : i understand, you're inlove...i'm in love and i want a baby real BAD. but you must understand, you've made this mistake, and you know that you want this kid, so you have a chance of not having a baby or having one while you on birthcontroll and might have something wrong with that baby, the thing is, that you have to deside yourself it's a big thing, is it not? it's an amazing thing, the thing holding me back from having a kid is my parents and my schooling. my bf's mom had her 1st baby at the age of 13, and she doesnt have a job and only has an 8th grade education. what i'm telling you is to stay in school w/e you do so you CAN support that baby. you might or might not be religous, dont take this to offense if you're not, but i'll pray for you. :)
talk it over w/ him or you parents more likely. i wish you luck girl.
-ashley by Anonymous Commentor on Wednesday May 07th, 2008
May 11th comment : Hey Gurl Sup! Wow i really looked back to myself when i read ur Mesg!U know what am 23yrs old n 3rd yr unv student! i have a bf n his 24 he has a job, nice one n also he is still in cumpus. He raised same question just dat he want me to have his baby when he come to vist me(his in other country by now) w/c is after a month! man i was so confussed cuz i love him n i really don wanne disaponted him but i also have my own dream n it's not da right time tohave a baby ! So i told him dat am not ready n i really need a time for dat @ least 2yrs! Well think u got me look our age d/f i am older dan u in 9 yrs so i don even feel dat am old enough to have a baby ! C life is difficult but u have to be sure to make da right decession beside u if he really loves u he would understand u n wait for da right time. So gur don have des babe it's not worth it n ur to young belive me u will thank me after 10yrs when u get more matured! K gurl n it's better to give priority for ur self first! by Anonymous Commentor on Sunday May 11th, 2008
May 11th comment : Hey Gurl Sup! Wow i really looked back to myself when i read ur Mesg!U know what am 23yrs old n 3rd yr unv student! i have a bf n his 24 he has a job, nice one n also he is still in cumpus. He raised same question just dat he want me to have his baby when he come to vist me(his in other country by now) w/c is after a month! man i was so confussed cuz i love him n i really don wanne disaponted him but i also have my own dream n it's not da right time tohave a baby ! So i told him dat am not ready n i really need a time for dat @ least 2yrs! Well think u got me look our age d/f i am older dan u in 9 yrs so i don even feel dat am old enough to have a baby ! C life is difficult but u have to be sure to make da right decession beside u if he really loves u he would understand u n wait for da right time. So gur don have des babe it's not worth it n ur to young belive me u will thank me after 10yrs when u get more matured! K gurl n it's better to give priority for ur self first! by Anonymous Commentor on Sunday May 11th, 2008
May 11th comment : Hey Gurl Sup! Wow i really looked back to myself when i read ur Mesg!U know what am 23yrs old n 3rd yr unv student! i have a bf n his 24 he has a job, nice one n also he is still in cumpus. He raised same question just dat he want me to have his baby when he come to vist me(his in other country by now) w/c is after a month! man i was so confussed cuz i love him n i really don wanne disaponted him but i also have my own dream n it's not da right time tohave a baby ! So i told him dat am not ready n i really need a time for dat @ least 2yrs! Well think u got me look our age d/f i am older dan u in 9 yrs so i don even feel dat am old enough to have a baby ! C life is difficult but u have to be sure to make da right decession beside u if he really loves u he would understand u n wait for da right time. So gur don have des babe it's not worth it n ur to young belive me u will thank me after 10yrs when u get more matured! K gurl n it's better to give priority for ur self first! by Anonymous Commentor on Sunday May 11th, 2008
May 11th comment : Hey Gurl Sup! Wow i really looked back to myself when i read ur Mesg!U know what am 23yrs old n 3rd yr unv student! i have a bf n his 24 he has a job, nice one n also he is still in cumpus. He raised same question just dat he want me to have his baby when he come to vist me(his in other country by now) w/c is after a month! man i was so confussed cuz i love him n i really don wanne disaponted him but i also have my own dream n it's not da right time tohave a baby ! So i told him dat am not ready n i really need a time for dat @ least 2yrs! Well think u got me look our age d/f i am older dan u in 9 yrs so i don even feel dat am old enough to have a baby ! C life is difficult but u have to be sure to make da right decession beside u if he really loves u he would understand u n wait for da right time. So gur don have des babe it's not worth it n ur to young belive me u will thank me after 10yrs when u get more matured! K gurl n it's better to give priority for ur self first! by Anonymous Commentor on Sunday May 11th, 2008
May 11th comment : Hey Gurl Sup! Wow i really looked back to myself when i read ur Mesg!U know what am 23yrs old n 3rd yr unv student! i have a bf n his 24 he has a job, nice one n also he is still in cumpus. He raised same question just dat he want me to have his baby when he come to vist me(his in other country by now) w/c is after a month! man i was so confussed cuz i love him n i really don wanne disaponted him but i also have my own dream n it's not da right time tohave a baby ! So i told him dat am not ready n i really need a time for dat @ least 2yrs! Well think u got me look our age d/f i am older dan u in 9 yrs so i don even feel dat am old enough to have a baby ! C life is difficult but u have to be sure to make da right decession beside u if he really loves u he would understand u n wait for da right time. So gur don have des babe it's not worth it n ur to young belive me u will thank me after 10yrs when u get more matured! K gurl n it's better to give priority for ur self first! by Anonymous Commentor on Sunday May 11th, 2008
May 11th comment : Hey Gurl Sup! Wow i really looked back to myself when i read ur Mesg!U know what am 23yrs old n 3rd yr unv student! i have a bf n his 24 he has a job, nice one n also he is still in cumpus. He raised same question just dat he want me to have his baby when he come to vist me(his in other country by now) w/c is after a month! man i was so confussed cuz i love him n i really don wanne disaponted him but i also have my own dream n it's not da right time tohave a baby ! So i told him dat am not ready n i really need a time for dat @ least 2yrs! Well think u got me look our age d/f i am older dan u in 9 yrs so i don even feel dat am old enough to have a baby ! C life is difficult but u have to be sure to make da right decession beside u if he really loves u he would understand u n wait for da right time. So gur don have des babe it's not worth it n ur to young belive me u will thank me after 10yrs when u get more matured! K gurl n it's better to give priority for ur self first! by Anonymous Commentor on Sunday May 11th, 2008
Be smart about things. : You and your boyfriend are only 14. This is the time in your life where you should be having fun. I'm 19 years of age and my boyfriend is 20 and we are having our first child. It's scary, because we don't want our child to have a bad life, and it won't its just the fact that we are so young and we had our whole lives ahead of us. All i'm saying is you really need to not worry about being a grown up. You need to tell your boyfriend that you two are most def. not ready to have a child and that you both have a lot of growing up to do. Plus i'm sure that if you were to get pregnant, neither parents would be too thrilled. Plus you have school and college ahead of you, so be smart about things by Anonymous Commentor on Tuesday Jul 01st, 2008
Be smart about things. : You and your boyfriend are only 14. This is the time in your life where you should be having fun. I'm 19 years of age and my boyfriend is 20 and we are having our first child. It's scary, because we don't want our child to have a bad life, and it won't its just the fact that we are so young and we had our whole lives ahead of us. All i'm saying is you really need to not worry about being a grown up. You need to tell your boyfriend that you two are most def. not ready to have a child and that you both have a lot of growing up to do. Plus i'm sure that if you were to get pregnant, neither parents would be too thrilled. Plus you have school and college ahead of you, so be smart about things by Anonymous Commentor on Tuesday Jul 01st, 2008
... : i hope u didn't make the decition to have the baby. i mean u r still too young. having a baby would ruin life, as well as ur baby's life. u would want ur baby to grow up in a good envirnmnt, by giveing birth now, u won't be able to fullfil his/her needs.
besides if he loves u... he would respect ur decition and still continue with the relationship. good luck :) by Anonymous Commentor on Wednesday Sep 03rd, 2008
um... : first, i don't think that being on birth control will cause your baby to be deformed unless you're using a very strange type of birth control. second, why would a baby be a symbol of love to a 14 year old boy? third, why are you on birth control? did your parents put you on birth control? are you taking it correctly? fourth, you are poor. you're only 14. technically you can't really legally own anything. you can't make legally binding contracts. the worst thing you could do to a kid is to have it so that someone will think you love him. you're thinking about yourself, but you should think about this kid you're contemplating. babies are not objects. they're humans. they're not puppies. they don't ask to be here and they last way longer than many relationships. please do not have a child. it's good that you are thinking about the quality of life your baby would have at this point. keep thinking. don't have babies until you're out of college and can afford them and actually have the time to enjoy them. by Anonymous Commentor on Saturday Dec 13th, 2008
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