Pondering what to do? : by More by Ole Hippy
submitted Saturday Jan 26th, 2008
What do you think
Ive just joined here a week or so ago and have only posted one other thing on here but have got no response so am thinking this might be a mistake or no one else has a opinion.
Being a older male and in that time in life when things start getting alittle wierd, must be change of life or something like woman go thru. The last couple of years have been rough ones both physically and mentally for me. The only good thing is that I got to retire and start enjoying life I though, then a couple of surgerys and then the mind games started. First off I am happily married and would never consider leaving my wife, even tho things there have changed and as she says most of it is on my side. I dont see it but she has shut down sexually and even tho there are somethings I cant do any more there are alot I still like to do. Ive been lucky enough to remain friends with the first girl I asked to marry me but didnt and this friendship has lasted over 30 something years with no sexual contact at all, we just talk to each other about twice a month and that is all. We both care about one another but it is just friendship and that is all.
The other night while working a show for a local band I was running the light when someone came up behind me and started to make commets about what a good job I was doing. All of 5 ft tall long coal black wavey hair and wearing a banana yellow head band, and not more that 100 lbs soaking wet. I thanked the person and just as the band finished I got up to go turn on the house lights. When I truned around I ran right into them and had to grab him to so he didnt fall over. I said sorry about that dude and he just laughed and said, "Im not a dude but all woman." I guess I trued every shade of red and tried to appoligise but she just started to laugh and asked if she buy me a drink. Thats when I reliased that she was the spitting image of my first real love. If she was her twin she couldnt have looked more like her. Now what do I do?
Comments on Pondering what to do?
honesty is the best policy : just tell your wife you have a little obsession and maybe you will get over it and maybe you wont, but you have to find out. She will be more understanding than you think, truly, we are only human. by Anonymous Commentor on Thursday Nov 20th, 2008
honesty is the best policy : just tell your wife you have a little obsession and maybe you will get over it and maybe you wont, but you have to find out. She will be more understanding than you think, truly, we are only human. by Anonymous Commentor on Thursday Nov 20th, 2008
honesty is the best policy : just tell your wife you have a little obsession and maybe you will get over it and maybe you wont, but you have to find out. She will be more understanding than you think, truly, we are only human. by Anonymous Commentor on Thursday Nov 20th, 2008
gepLUhfmL : Never seen a btteer post! ICOCBW by on Tuesday Nov 15th, 2011
bPHAvfhYHhIW : Dude, right on there brthoer. by on Thursday Nov 17th, 2011
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